Thursday, December 31, 2009

Happy New Year!


The girls and Jason came over New Years Eve. It will be our last 'time' altogether in Tucson. They are moving to Las Vegas next week. Jason starts his new job....a great opportunity for his career in Prosthetics. I am so happy for him...but will miss the girls tremendously. I don' t want to think about it too much. We will be able to get to Vegas frequently since it's not too far.
We had a nice day together. Lola enjoyed her new easel, painting for over an hour. Look at that face! Bella played with her Nintendo ds. We had grilled chicken, baked potatoes, grilled vegetables, fruit and macaroni and cheese for the girls....ice cream for dessert. It was a very nice evening.








Thursday, December 24, 2009

Christmas with the girls








Bella and Lola spent the night on Wednesday, December 23rd. We had arranged with Santa to come visit our house early for the girls, so they could wake up and open presents with us Christmas Eve morning. We went to their favorite restaurant, Chuy's for dinner. I think it is Lola's favorite restaurant because of the balloons they get and the Barbies hanging from the ceiling. Bella likes it because she loves grilled Mahi. After dinner we went home and made hot chocolate with real whipped cream and watched 'Prancer'. Bella wrote a note to Santa Claus, including a line for his signature, to prove that he came. Bella put 3 Gingerbread Man cookies and milk out for Santa, next to her note and a pen. Bella's note to Santa:
Dear Santa Claus:
Thank you for stopping by. I wonder why people sometimes don't believe in you. Well, I know I believe in you. I think you are part of my family. You are the best! Merry Christmas.
Your friend,
Izabella Linhart
P.S. hope you enjoy the cookies
Please write your signature on the little paper on the top of this page.
I had bought the girls new pajamas; they were so cute. We all went to bed. The girls slept in our room on the floor...we don't have the spare bedroom set up yet. They went to sleep right away, which surprised me. Bella told Lola when she woke up she would have presents. When we were sure they were asleep, we got up to put the presents out, fill the stockings and 'eat and drink' Santa's treat. Oh, I almost forgot to sign his name, but remembered before going to bed. Ken and Lola coughed frequently through the night. I got up once to give her cough medicine, but honestly I think they call it cough medicine because it makes you cough. The only cough medicine that works, in may opinion, is the kind with codeine. Lola woke herself coughing around 6:30 am and she sat up and said "presents!" We had to wake Bella up; I swear that girl can sleep through anything!
We all went out to the family room together and the first thing Bella did was check her note and the cookies and milk. She was so excited that Santa signed his name. Santa had separated their gifts in two groups and they took turns opening their gifts. Lola was so patient and wanted to see Bella's gifts as she opened them. I think Bella was a little disappointed because she got 2 Wii games and really didn't know what they were. Santa was going to bring her a Wii at her Mom's and Jason's house. (Later, on Christmas day, she called us to say she loved her Wii games!). We all spent some time enjoying their new toys, games. Honestly the most loved gift was the 'vroom' cars that went fast on the tile, flipping and ending back up on the wheels. They even tried it out in the gravel in the yard. Lola loved her new pink scooter. We had breakfast: warm cinnamon rolls, bacon, eggs, orange juice, hot chocolate and then played until it was time for April to pick them up. It was a very fun time and I am grateful.










Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Kindness for Christmas

We moved in our new home last Saturday. We had many, amazing helpers that made the move go very smoothly. Uncle Don (he's 83) and his friend Russ totally moved our stuff from our 2 garages. If you have ever seen Ken's garages, you know this is no easy task. They used Russ's small pick up truck and must have made 20+ trips. They did it over 2 weeks time, without complaining; unbelievable! Sometimes I would catch up with them at the house and they would be drinking beer! I don't know how they do it. If I would drink a beer before noon, I may as well go to bed! I'm done. After the garages were emptied, they continued to help with all of the other stuff too!
Without my friend Henna, I would still be packing boxes in the condo! First she helped me pack at the condo. She is very organized. As we were packing, she would ask me if I wanted to keep something...if I hesitated at all, she would say, get rid of it. I got rid of so much stuff I do not need. Then we loaded boxes up and took them to the house where she promptly unpacked them. Oh, I forgot to say that the week before we started the packing, she helped me clean the house so it would be ready to put things away. She organized my kitchen and had great tips on where items should be. On Saturday, after everything had been moved and I was ready to collapse, she said we must put some Christmas decorations out. What...are you kidding me? No, she is not kidding. As I found some boxes labeled Christmas, she quickly made the house look festive, warm and beautiful. After all, we were having our annual Christmas gift exchange party at our house that night with her and Larry and Bobbie and Annie! It was planned a long time ago and is an annual event that I refused to cancel. More on that later.
Our other helpers were Larry (Henna's husband), my son Jason, Cole, a young, strong kid Ken works with and Don Raffety. Don calls Ken on Saturday to offer his help. His task was to move our clothes...lucky him! Doesn't everyone hate that job? A month before the move, Ken and I had gone through our closet and donated everything we didn't want anymore. I recommend everyone to do that before a move. Don moved ALL of our clothes (by himself), carrying them down the steps at the condo and hanging them up in our new house. This is such a kind thing to do for someone.
We all took a break for pizza and soda (beer for some!) and then continued until everything was moved. We thanked everyone and had just enough time to shower, make Bobbie's favorite Christmas cookies, make a salad, get the pork tenderloins in a marinade, make a sour cherry sauce for the pork and wrap the presents!
As I was lighting last minute candles, the door bell rings.....it's not time for the party yet??? I open the door and it is Don and Judie Raffety with a house warming gift. Not only does Don give us an entire day moving our clothes, but stops by a few hours later with a gift.
I truly am thankful and overwhelmed at the thoughtfulness of our friends....it's such a great Christmas present.
The party was a success; it's always so fun..very simple. It's just Ken and I, Larry and Henna, Bobbie and Annie. We had appetizers and Pomegranate Martinis, opened our presents and then had dinner at our new dining room table and chairs. The candles were lit and the Christmas music playing; the conversation flowed.....I thought it would be an early evening...we were tired, but it was one of those evenings where everything felt good and right and they didn't leave until 10 PM....which is late for all of us.
Truly a great day...all because of kindness. Merry Christmas!

Friday, December 18, 2009

Let it snow....kind of


We took Bella and Lola to see the 'snow' at La Encantada. Snow in Tucson is rare....although it does snow occasionally. Every year, the La Encantada outdoor mall showers the shoppers with a snow storm. It's actually soap but really looks like snow. There is Christmas music, hot chocolate, lots of children and an overall festive feeling. The girls had a wonderful time running around and trying to catch the snow flakes. When they did, it tasted yucky!


After the snowfall, we had dinner at Bluepoint. Bella and I shared Grilled Salmon, Ken had Mahi Mahi and Lola had the orange off of my martini and french fries. Afterwards we went to Frost for Gelato and ate it near the fireplace outside. It was rather chilly! We had a fun time.


Jason picked the girls up at the condo later. He was flying in from an interview in Las Vegas. He got the job....a great promotion! He will begin January 4th, so they will be moving pretty quickly. It is sad to see them move; I will miss seeing the girls; but I am very happy for him. It's a great opportunity for his career. We'll have to visit Las Vegas more often!!

Thursday, December 17, 2009

I'll be home for Christmas...

We are getting close...we plan to move in this Saturday! My purple shag carpet for the bedroom is installed..wow! I love it. Ken said we may as well take off the doors and hang beads. It's so luscious! We still have lots to do but moving in will make everything easier. Our goal was to be in before Christmas and we will make that goal. Now I have to find some Christmas decorations amongst all the boxes, including the stockings for Bella and Lola. We are planning on taking the girls to La Encantada for the 'snow' on Friday! Can't wait.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Happy Birthday Uncle Don!


Uncle Don is 83....or 84. See, it all depends on whether he counts the time he spent in WWII. We celebrated at Annie and Bob's house. The guests were me and Ken, of course Annie and Bobbie, Larry and Henna, Uncle Don and Loraine and their friends Russ and Mary. Uncle Don is amazing. He still volunteers 3 mornings a week at Catalina State Park, cleaning up horse manure, driving dump trucks, maintaining trails and anything else they need help with. I guarantee he can outwork most of us. He takes no medication and never goes to the doctor. He drinks beer whenever he wants and never eats salad, and rarely eats vegetables. He prefers pretzels and beer, chips and hamburgers. I asked him if he ever has aches or pains; he said of course, he just ignores them. He recently had to go to the VA hospital to get a check up, including blood work because if he didn't go, he would never be able to use his Veteran's benefits. He went, but told them NOT to tell him any of the results. He is amazing.
I think he had a wonderful birthday; we had many appetizers. I made two pies: pumpkin and cherry. Happy Birthday Uncle Don!


Get a grip!


I can't believe it is December 15th. I'm kind of aggravated because I haven't had time to enjoy the Christmas holiday. We have been busy with the new house. No time to go look at lights, experience the 'snow' at La Encantada, no time to bake cookies and pass them out to friends, no time to watch my favorite Christmas movies (we did watch a few). Oh pleeeaaassse Margie! I need to get a grip!!!
It's no surprise that we are a bit behind in our work at the new house. We hoped to be moved by now, but it doesn't always work out that way. I have really noticed this year that deliveries are never on time. I've always completed most of my shopping on line and most of the time things arrive on time or earlier. This year it is different. Every single thing I have ordered has been late. Our bedroom carpet was supposed to be in by now but we still wait. We can't move in until that is installed. Last night I got so agitated because once again it had not arrived! Ken quickly reminded me how silly my upset was in the scheme of life. We are healthy, we have each other and so many blessings. Gosh, he is so right. How many people in this world don't even know what carpet is? I am thankful for my husband; we tend to keep each other grounded. I think part of my upset is that I am tired. Ken and I have remodeled many, many houses, but this time we seem to get tired more easily. I guess we aren't getting any younger.

To keep myself grounded and perhaps CHANGE my attitude, I am going to list some things I am thankful for (in no particular order) :

My country, that I was born in the USA
The Military
Husband
Health
God
Friends
Job that I love, with great benefits
Simple joys of life..the little things..so many
Granddaughters
Freedom
Christmas..that Jesus was born
Wonderful memories of my grandma
Wonderful memories of raising my sons
A safe, warm, cozy home
As much food as I need and want
Clean water
A husband with a sense of humor

Friday, November 20, 2009

Still Blessed



I was looking for a Thanksgiving picture to post. Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday; because there is not the pressure of buying gifts and everything that goes along with that. It is usually a calm day that begins with the smell of the Turkey roasting in the oven. When I was little, my parents would get up so early to begin all of the preparation....it was so nice to wake up to the smells. My parents were usually in a good mood too which always made things better. I would always insist on watching the Macy Thanksgiving Parade. Relatives and friends came over; there was always so many people; it was very informal. My best friend Pati lived a few blocks away and we had a tradition of her joining my family first; we usually ate around 1-2 pm. Then we would walk to her house and help with the preparations for dinner at 6pm. It was always a nice change of pace at her house. It was mainly her immediate family and both grandmas. The table was very formal, with fine china, silver, wine glasses. I thoroughly enjoyed the fact that you were guaranteed a seat at the 'big, adult' table and weren't stuck at the kids table in another room! I think that is why to this day, I love fine restaurants and love the formal table. At the end of the day, Pati and I were happily stuffed. We had this tradition all the way through high school.
Once I was married and had children, the venue changed, mainly went to Ken's parents; then as time passed, we lost both of his parents, moved to Arizona and our house became filled with family and friends on Thanksgiving. I didn't always get to watch the parade because of the preparation but it was always on in the background.
The Norman Rockwell picture depicts so much of my memories of the holiday. Some would say the 50's and 60's were unrealistic. Well I miss the simplicity. Yes, there were problems in our society but our values and morals in this country have changed (not for the better) and I will be forever thankful that I lived during that time.
Now things have changed even more, and the big gatherings are sweet memories. But I still love the day, I will still make a Turkey, still have the parade on and enjoy our little gathering....Ken, Jason, Lola and I. There is still so much to be thankful for, I am still very blessed. Hope all of you have a wonderful holiday.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Happy Veteran's Day


I honor all the veterans of our great country, thank you, I have more respect for you than any others in this country. You are awesome....may God bless you.

In war there is no substitute for victory. --General Douglas MacArthur--

From time to time, the tree of liberty must be watered with the blood of tyrants and patriots. --Thomas Jefferson--

War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse. The person who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept so by the exertions of better men than himself. --John Stewart Mill--

War is cruelty. There's no use trying to reform it, the crueler it is the sooner it will be over. --William Tecumseh Sherman--

Some people live an entire lifetime and wonder if they have ever made a difference in the world, but the Marines don't have that problem. --Ronald Reagan--

A young man who does not have what it takes to perform military service is not likely to have what it takes to make a living. --John F. Kennedy--

Praise the Lord and pass the ammunition. – H. M. Forgy, chaplain USS New Orleans Pearl Harbor, 7 December 1941

Here’s my strategy on the Cold War: We win, they lose. – Ronald Reagan

Of the four wars in my lifetime none came about because the U.S. was too strong. – Ronald Reagan

A war put off is not a war avoided. – Charlton Heston





Monday, November 9, 2009

Welcome Home!





















Welcome Home, meaning we have a new home! We just heard all is a 'go' for closing November 20th. We have been searching for a house for 10+ months. You would think there would be many homes available in this market, but we are really picky and a house has to feel like it's our home....it has to feel like we belong. And we finally found it. It is in Rancho Vistoso in Oro Valley, which we love. It has a huge front yard with trees, a huge front porch (unheard of in Tucson), and a large back yard that has a wash behind it with mountain views. The house is 1600 sq. feet, just right for the two of us. It is 'virgin' meaning no one has messed it up by remodeling. We like to do that ourselves and have a lot of work ahead of us....which we look forward to. Don't know when we will move in, we have to decide how much renovation we want to finish before we move in....but certainly before Christmas!!

We watched Lola for an hour or so after work, so we took her over to the new house. She loved that there was nothing in it and danced and ran through the house. She kept saying, "come on GeeGee, let's go". She has started this thing, when you ask (or tell) her to do something and she doesn't want to, she very politely says, "no thanks"! It's so cute (and manipulative).




Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Seasonal Soiree




I found this on Martha Stewart's website. It sounds so delicious and fun for fall. Let me know if you try any of the recipes. Also a nice 'touch' is the apple votives~would be a welcoming light at the front door. See 'how to' at the bottom.









A flotilla of apples bobbing in a steel tub evokes memories of childhood and headlong plunges into icy water. But carved into holiday candleholders, these apple votives are a prize for the eyes alone, their flames a promise of warmth.
Tools and Materials
Similar steel tub
Apples
Tea lights
Paring knife
Lemon juice
Apple Votives How-To
Every apple will float differently, so see how they balance in water before marking their topsides with a dot.
1. Place the tea light over the dot, and trace around its circumference with a paring knife, inserting the knife vertically as deep as the tea light is tall.
2. Set aside the light, cut the circle into sections, and scoop them out with a spoon.
3. Squeeze lemon juice onto the cut surface to keep the apple from turning brown, and insert a tea light. Repeat with remaining apples.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

It's cold and that is so exciting!


It's currently 33 degrees and for a Tucsonan that is so exciting. I'm wearing a sweater! I also made home made vegetable soup and it is currently cooking in the crock pot. When we get home and open the door, the smell will be heavenly! We will be babysitting the girls for a few hours after work, until Jason gets home, so we invited them for soup! It's the little things that excite me.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Shuck beans



I am profoundly, emotionally affected by smells. At the most unexpected time, a smell will instantly take me back to a place, a person, a feeling. The feeling will be like I am right there, swarming around me like a cocoon, feeling just like I did ‘back then’. Fortunately, it mostly happens with pleasant smells.
Every single time, I smell, prepare or eat green beans, I am immediately taken back to my grandma’s (Mama Lottie) kitchen. I am not talking about the healthy, steamed green bean; I am talking about the kind you put ham or bacon in and cook for a long, long time. The smell is heavenly…and the taste is too.
When I was little, Mama would ‘shuck’ her beans. I never knew why she did that; never felt the need to ask. My parents never shucked their green beans. It was just something Mama did. Shucking green beans is a drying process, where you thread a needle with cotton thread, thread the beans on the needle in the center of the bean pod but between the actual beans, pushing to the end of the string. Then you hang them from a hook to dry. I can still see them hanging next to the black telephone on her kitchen wall. My sisters and I would be so impatient, waiting for them to be ready (dry enough) to cook them. Then when it was finally time to cook and eat them, there was never enough…I always wanted more. I never thought about why she prepared beans this way. Now I know Mama got her beans from her garden and it was a way to ‘preserve’ them when you didn’t ‘can’ them. I have included the steps to shucking green beans…in case you ever have too many fresh ones.
Shucked Green BeansInstructions
Things You'll Need:
· Green Beans
· Needle
· Cotton Thread
· Dry, airy area
Step 1: Sort through the green beans and select only the best for drying. Do not try to dry green beans that have rotten, or ones that have holes or other deformations.
Step 2: Do not wash the beans. Take a cloth and wipe off any excess dirt.
Step 3: Thread a needle with cotton thread. Bring the thread through the needle long enough to make a double string about 18 inches to 2 feet long. Tie off the ends.
Step 4: Thread the beans on the needle in the center of the bean pod but between the actual beans. Push to the end of the string.
Step 5: Continue threading the beans until the length is 3/4 full. Either break the tread or cut it off at the end of the needle. Tie off this end.
Step 6: Use the excess thread to make a loop. Hang this loop from a hook or nail in a dry, airy place. The beans are dry when they "crunch" when you try to bend them.


COOKING:


To cook the beans..soak in water overnight in large kettle, pour off the soaking water in the morning and cover the beans w/fresh water, add a couple smoked hocks or what ever smoked meat you have, bring up to boil and then cover and turn down the fire to slow cook about 2 hours, season the way you like them.

Monday, October 26, 2009

'Punkin' Patch

Ken, Bella, Lola and I left Friday after work with the RV, heading to Usery Mountain Park near the Salt River for a 'Fall' weekend...as much as you can experience fall in the desert. I always pack fruit, cheese and juice. The girls truly do not like 'junky' snacks. If you put a piece of cake next to a bowl of grapes in front of them, they will 100% of the time select the grapes.
They both fell asleep on the way. It only takes an hour and 15 minutes to get there from Oro Valley. We arrive and begin to set up camp. It cools off very quickly once the sun goes down, so a fire will be nice tonight. Pops gets the wood ready in the fire ring (but doesn't light it), and we hang up pumpkin lights; the girls are so excited. We are all sitting around the fire, waiting for Pops to light it. He says he has to tell us a story first. He begins telling a story about two Indians-'Running Bear and Geronimo'. It's a long story and the girls are losing interest quickly...until he says if we do a dance, Geronimo will shoot an arrow of fire from the sky to light our campfire. He begins chanting and dancing the toe/heel sequence around the fire. Soon we are all doing it, laughing. Suddenly, (when they weren't looking), he drops a match in the fire ring and the 'poof', the fire practically explodes into flames. Bella is astounded. I'm kind of impressed too. I'll have to find out later how he did that.
Bella tells some cute Halloween jokes, we take turns dancing, Lola mimics everyone...the moon is up, it's a beautiful night, lots of stars. It doesn't get much better than this. It's time to make s'mores. Lola has no interest in making the yummy treats. She wants to eat her chocolate separate and roast the marshmallows until they fall off the roasting stick and then do it again. She is doing some kind of ritual where she places her hand above the fire and moves it back and forth as she says something, and then she raises her arm in the air and yells 'yeah'! We have no idea what she is doing but she does it over and over. See the picture.
After lots of fun, it is time for baths, bed and prayers. It gets cold during the night and Ken has to turn on the heat! How exciting!
We all wake up around 7:30. Lola has a bad case of the 'grumps'...see the picture, it definitely tells a story!


We make bacon, eggs, cheerios, pineapple, hot chocolate and lattes. Bella likes whipped cream on hers. Lola only wants 'cream' so I fill a small bowl with whipped cream...that's her breakfast....that would make any girl happy.

After cleaning up, we head to the river. Bella wants to look for minnows. The river is very low, you can walk across it. Lola and I head for the shade of the bridge, while Pops and Bella look for minnows. Lola enjoys throwing rocks into the river, watching them splash. She sees big black birds and points out which is the mommy, daddy and baby. It is getting warm and after a while we head back to camp for some lunch.







After lunch, we contemplate a nap, but decide against it...we want to go to the 'punkin' patch as Lola says and it would be too late after a nap.
We go to Schnepf's farm in Queen Creek, about 20 minutes away. It is a really neat working farm, with lots to do (maybe a bit too much). Jason meets us there, as he is up in Phoenix visiting a friend. We have fun riding the train, briefly going through a corn maze (so, so dusty!!!), petting the animals and a ride on the merry-go-round. It is getting hot and so the girls pick out their pumpkins and we say goodbye to Jason and head back to camp. Next time I will pick a farm with less 'stuff' to do, and more of just a pumpkin patch.





Back at camp, Pop starts a fire, while I begin dinner. Our plan is to carve the pumpkins before dinner so we can light them for the evening. Bella and Lola draw their faces on the pumpkins and Pops carves them out. He carves them exactly as they drew them. Bella's of course is excellent and Lola's has tons of character! Now it's time for digging out the 'goup' inside. They both do a great job. I put the candles in and we set them on the small tables next to the chairs by the fire. It will be a festive night.




We had lots of fun roasting marshmallows, making s'mores and just enjoying being together.







After bath time, we snuggled up in Bella's and Lola's bed and watched Charlie Brown's 'The Great Pumpkin'. Brings back lots of memories. We were all tired and fell asleep easily.
We all slept a little later...8 am. Bella got up and checked on her minnows and snails to make sure they were ok...they were. Lola was in a good mood. We took our time with breakfast and cleaning up before heading home. I made sure their pumpkins were safe in the back of the truck to make the trip home. We made lots of good memories...a wonderful time!